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Turning 28 isn’t as daunting as I expected; in fact, I’m surprised by how much I’ve settled into myself. In this blog, I reflect on letting go of people-pleasing, learning to care less about others’ opinions, and embracing the messy, imperfect reality of adulthood. If you’ve ever felt behind or pressured to have it all figured out, this one’s for you.

Struggling to find purpose after redundancy, I open up about the guilt, loneliness, and uncertainty that come with too much free time and not enough direction. From missing the structure of work to feeling lost in a maze of job applications, this blog is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck or unsure of their next step. If you’re searching for meaning too, you’re not alone, sometimes just getting through the day is enough.

Redundancy is never easy, and for me, it’s brought a tidal wave of imposter syndrome and self-doubt. Opening up about the reality of job loss, endless applications, and the fear of not being good enough has been helpful in my journey. If you’re feeling lost or questioning your worth, you’re not alone, this is for anyone who’s ever wondered if they’re just “winging it” too.

Ever felt like you’re always invited but never anyone’s first choice? I open up about the ache of feeling like the “filler friend” – surrounded by people but still on the outside. From losing that one person who felt like home, to fearing I’ll never be someone’s priority, this is for anyone who’s ever felt left out or second best. If you’re searching for your “person” too, I hope you find comfort knowing you’re not alone.

ADHD is still trending on social media and it's not always positive. For people who actually have it, it can feel like our struggles are seen as a bit of a joke, when in reality living with ADHD is hard.

I’m a tall, slightly chaotic brunette living in London, muddling my way through adulthood with a dash of ADHD, a love-hate relationship with the London, and a knack for finding myself in shit situations.